{"id":2619,"date":"2025-12-18T06:14:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-18T06:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/?p=2619"},"modified":"2026-09-28T08:58:39","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T08:58:39","slug":"from-barcelona-to-stockholm-what-4-months-of-darkness-taught-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/de\/blog\/from-barcelona-to-stockholm-what-4-months-of-darkness-taught-me\/","title":{"rendered":"From Barcelona to Stockholm: What 4 Months of Darkness Taught Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Four months ago, I left Barcelona\u2019s sunshine for Stockholm\u2019s darkness. Two overstuffed suitcases, a playlist full of Swedish House Mafia, ABBA and Ted G\u00e4rdestad, and absolutely no idea what I was doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My name is Laia, I\u2019m 20 years old, and I just finished my Erasmus+ internship at XperienceSthlm. This isn\u2019t a post about what I learned at work (though I learned a lot). This is about everything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>How a Catalan girl ended up in the Arctic (well, almost<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m from Barcelona &#8211; sun, beach, late dinners at 9 PM, life on the streets. W<strong>hy would I choose a place where the sun sets at 3 PM in December?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I found XperienceSthlm \u2013 a small tourism company creating cultural experiences and producing a podcast called \u201cSomewhere in Stockholm\u201d. Something about it felt right. Small team. Real projects. Actual responsibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I said yes to Stockholm. To the cold. To the unknown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>When you start to meet the Nordic reality<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the first day, I was terrified. \u201cWhat if my English isn\u2019t good enough? What if I mess everything up?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But Fran just said: \u201cHere are your projects. You\u2019ve got this. Ask when you need help.\u201d No micromanaging. Just trust.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That week I also discovered Swedish culture is very different from Catalan culture:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Silence is okay. We sometimes fill every moment with noise. Swedes are comfortable with quiet. Took me weeks to not find it awkward.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Punctuality is extreme. 10:00 means 10:00.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lagom = just right. The opposite of Barcelona\u2019s \u201cmore is more\u201d energy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>What I actually did<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I helped produce a podcast (researched guests, wrote emails, created interview questions). I wrote blog posts about <a href=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/de\/blog-1\/f\/our-stockholm-christmas-traditions-food-tour\/\">Schwedisches Weihnachtserlebnis<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/de\/blog-1\/f\/where-to-go-thrifting-in-stockholm\/\">vintage shopping<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/de\/blog-1\/f\/stockholm-for-architecture-design-lovers\/\">architecture and design<\/a>. I designed travel guides and I also learned SEO.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But here\u2019s the thing \u2013 nothing felt like \u201cwork\u201d because everything was real.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wrote about Christmas markets after spending the afternoon at Stortorget tasting gl\u00f6gg. I wrote about thrift shopping after digging through vintage racks in S\u00f6dermalm with the team. I created a blog post after each tour and visit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"287\" src=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-1024x287.jpeg\" alt=\"Video call from the Erasmus Marketing Experience Internship\" class=\"wp-image-2622\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3.565714285714286;width:624px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-1024x287.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-300x84.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-767x215.jpeg 767w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-18x5.jpeg 18w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6.jpeg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>The moments that actually mattered<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The Vasa Museum: Massive 17th-century warship that sank on its first voyage. They pulled it out 333 years later. Pretty insane. Also the museum smells weird.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Christmas Markets: Overhyped but nice. Freezing cold, too many tourists, overpriced gl\u00f6gg. Went with the team one evening and just people-watched. A good moment.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u00f6dermalm with Fran and Olesia: Some of my best memories are from wandering around S\u00f6dermalm with them. Exploring vintage shops, talking about everything and nothing, just being part of the team. They made me feel welcome from day one\u2014not just &#8220;the intern.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Weekly Fika: Team meetings that turned into actual conversations. Talked about life, culture, and missing home. Fran asked how I was <em>actually<\/em> doing and I rambled about missing my mom&#8217;s cooking. She just listened. Mattered more than any work task.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>R\u00e5gsved and Sn\u00f6s\u00e4tra: Neighborhoods not in guidebooks. Graffiti, community centers, immigrant businesses. Real Stockholm. Reminded me of el Raval\u2014real places, real people.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Darkness: Late November was rough. Sun set at 2:45 PM. Called my mom feeling down. She said buy candles and stop complaining. I did. It helped. Got used to it by December. Still prefer Barcelona sunshine though.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6.png\" alt=\"Photo collage of autumn and winter moments in Stockholm with friends\" class=\"wp-image-2620\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;width:500px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6.png 500w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-12x12.png 12w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-6-300x300.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>What I actually learned<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Living alone in a foreign country for the first time forces you to figure things out. All the little things you take for granted at home \u2013 navigating a new city, managing your own schedule, dealing with problems without your family there to help. In Barcelona, I always had people around. Here, everything was on me. And somehow, I survived. Actually,&nbsp; more than survived \u2013 I learned I\u2019m more capable than I thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fran gave constant, detailed feedback. At first, I took it personally. Then I realized that she\u2019s investing time to make me better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Swedes master <em>mys<\/em> \u2014 coziness. Candles. Soft light. Warm blankets. Barcelona creates warmth through people \u2014 loud dinners, packed terraces, street life. Stockholm creates warmth through intimate spaces. Both are beautiful. I\u2019m taking both home with me (plus six actual candles).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neither is better, it\u2019s just different. Experiencing both made me love Barcelona more while appreciating what Stockholm taught me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7.png\" alt=\"Photo collage of photo-booth snaps, Stortorget in Gamla Stan and Stockholm by the water\" class=\"wp-image-2621\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;width:500px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7.png 500w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-12x12.png 12w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>What I\u2019m taking home<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">More than completed projects and a better CV:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Confidence that I can handle unfamiliar situations and proof that the scariest decisions are often the best ones. Confidence that I can handle unfamiliar situations and appreciation for different cultures \u2013 and deeper love for my own.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Memories of snow, darkness, light, Christmas markets, vintage finds, and a team and friends here that felt like a second family. And knowing that home will always be Barcelona but part of me now belongs to Stockholm too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>To Future Students<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re scrolling through Erasmus options, wondering if you should go \u2014 yes. Do it! Of course you will miss home and maybe you\u2019ll complain about the cold (you will also FaceTime home constantly).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But you\u2019ll figure it out. You\u2019ll grow. You\u2019ll surprise yourself. And four months later, packing your suitcases, you know that this experience, it\u2019s irreplaceable!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I just can say <em>tack s\u00e5 mycket<\/em> to this country and their people, and also to XperienceSthlm and Fran for trusting me and giving me space to grow but also learn a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Laia Olivella<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"682\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-682x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"Portrait of the author, an Erasmus marketing intern at XperienceSthlm\" class=\"wp-image-2623\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.6666666666666666;width:624px;height:auto\" title=\"(c) Ana Barbosa @baoba.lab\" srcset=\"https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-682x1024.jpeg 682w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-768x1152.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-1023x1536.jpeg 1023w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7-8x12.jpeg 8w, https:\/\/xperiencesthlm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/image-7.jpeg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(c) Ana Barbosa @baoba.lab<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P.S. &#8211; Currently crying while packing, already planning my return.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Four months ago, I left Barcelona\u2019s sunshine for Stockholm\u2019s darkness. Two overstuffed suitcases, a playlist full of Swedish House Mafia, ABBA and Ted G\u00e4rdestad, and absolutely no idea what I was doing. My name is Laia, I\u2019m 20 years old, and I just finished my Erasmus+ internship at XperienceSthlm. 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